Friday, December 10, 2010

Day 19 — Letter to someone that pesters your mind—good or bad.

This letter is rather difficult.  There is really no one in particular that pesters my mind but rather certain kinds of people that do.
Dear people with negative attitudes, you are what you make of yourself and your life.  The only person responsible for the decisions you make is YOU!  Nothing gets on my nerves more than people that bitch about stupid petty things.  In my opinion, there is always someone in a worse situation undergoing worse circumstances than you.  When you have a negative mind-set negative things are going to happen.  Instead of focusing on all that things that you don't like about your life or that make you unhappy try focusing on the positives aspects of your life and the things that do make you happy.  I am personally working on trying to be a more positive person.  I believe that not only will being positive thinking reduce your stress level but improve your overall attitude.  Lately, I don't know what it is but I have just been noticing a lot of my friends being so negative about everything.  Nothing more irritates me than when people feel so sorry for themselves.  I have noticed from my own personal experience that people do not want to be around people that are negative.  It only brings everyone down. 
From this day forward, I challenge you to be more positive. :)  Try looking on the bright side of things and focusing on all the blessings and great things in your life.  Everyone is truly blessed in one way or another.  When life throws you a curveball, look at the bigger picture and realize and appreciate the good in your life.  Personally, I am not in the best of situations right now but I am thankful for a roof over my head, a healthy daughter, wonderful friends and family who support me in any way they can, a loving husband, and food on the table.  Not everyone is this lucky but I am thankful for my life and the blessings I have. :)
Love forever and always,
Nicole

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